I love my husband to pieces. But the one thing is that if he isn't really comfortable with someone, he won't ask for help. I need some ideas of how to make this whole journey easier on him as well. Is there anything that I can do to help him the day of surgery? Make a "go bag" for him? Write him a letter? Ask certain people to physically be at the hospital with him? What were things that you did for your spouses or if you are the spouse, what are somethings that may help him? Thank you for any help you can give me.